What we want is to see the child in pursuit of knowledge, and not knowledge in pursuit of the child. ~George Bernard Shaw
Knitting
Last week, while I was sitting working on a hat, Julien asked if I could teach him how to knit. He has been asking for quite a long time, but I know from my reading about development and the coordination needed that it was best to wait until closer to 7. He has been finger knitting since he was 4. He does it mindlessly now as he sits listening to stories in the afternoon. I taught him to 4 finger knit when he was 5 and we have an endless supply of bracelets, headbands, and rope. Now at 6.5, I figured the time had come.
I chose a rainbow skein of Chunky Mochi. It is thick, soft, and rainbow. Perfect. I set him up with some bigger sized needles, casted on 20 stitches for him (they learn cast on later down the road) and then we sat down. We used the verse:
In through the front door,
run around the back.
Peek through the window
and off jumps Jack.
I won’t lie and say it was easy for him. I saw first hand why waiting is so important. The coordination, the concentration was so intense and yet with each stitch it came, slowly, but it came. Fingers grew more comfortable holding all the stitches and the yarn. He grew better at finding that place in front of the needle to fit it into the stitch. I thought for sure he would get frustrated and walk away, but he didn’t. He finished a row, and I said that was probably enough for today. He agreed, but 30 minutes later he was back at it for another row.
This weekend we laid low as we fought the nasty flu going around (and won for the most part. Yea for homeopathy!!) He had only a slight fever, so not enough to make him sleep but enough to keep him on the couch. Much to my delight, he had his knitting with him. Oh how happy that made me feel!
As his fingers get stronger, so too will his writing. As the synapses in his brain make this newly learned connection, so too will his pathways for more complex learning down the road. Such a big step made with a simple pair of knitting needles!
For anyone interested in a really fantastic book on why handwork is so important and at what stages things are introduced and why, check out “The Will Developed Intelligence”. If you are Waldorf or not, it is a really great read and wonderful way to supplement your children’s education no matter what path you follow.

I am Jennifer. I am a wife and stay at home mother to two little boys. We are a homeschooling, co sleeping, nature loving bunch and I hope you enjoy reading about our adventures. 

Comments
How exciting!! Reece has been
How exciting!! Reece has been showing some interest when I am knitting, so I think some finger knitting might be in our future soon. Happy knitting to Julien!
Knitting with your boy. What
Knitting with your boy. What fun! And hope you're starting to feel better. Well wishes!
Beautiful! I still need to
Beautiful! I still need to learn to knit and hope that The Bean develops some patience over the next five years so I can teach him too. :)
Hope you're all starting to feel better.
Very cool! S asking me to
Very cool! S asking me to teach her to knit, but at 3.5 her hands are still to small for finger knitting. She intently watches me though and I let her play around with a ball of spare yarn and a pair of kneedles.
So neat to see your boy interested in knitting. I hope there will be a generation of boys interested in the handcrafts.
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